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Thursday, April 17, 2008

Baby Steps

The great thing about baby steps is that even though they are small, they are still moving forward! In our case, even though it has seemingly been a few steps back, it has just been baby steps. Due to the circumstances surrounding our social worker and her recent death, our homestudy was on serious delay. However, it has now gone into full gear. Our new social worker has picked up the pieces and found some missing parts. After supplying her with those elements, we are nearing completion of that phase. Today, our homestudy is under review by the supervisor and hopefully in the next few business days, we can get this thing sent off to all the right places.

"Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the Lord, our God." Ps 20:7

Monday, April 14, 2008

Room Service Please

My 6 year old daughter woke up early this morning as I was just sitting down for some quiet time in my favorite chair. Now, I need to set this up just a little more. She had already gotten up once, and I encouraged her to go back to bed and sleep in because it was too early to get up. Within a few minutes, she came in and saw my face of shock, both of us knowing that she had now disobeyed. She said, "Mom, I have a question." My slow and controlled response, 'yes, Lacy?"
In her sweet little voice with concern and slight frustration on her face, she said, "Mom, when am I going to get room service?" (me) "WHAT?!!!"
(Lacy) "Well, I never get it! I havent gotten room service in a long time (never) and I want to know when I am going to get it. It's just not fair. Other people get room service all the time and I never get it."
(me) "What are you talking about sweetie? Are you talking about breakfast in bed?!"
(Lacy) "Yes, Mom. I never get that. When am I going to get that, like eggs and toast and stuff when I am in bed? It's just not fair"
(me) "Okay, well kids dont get room service. I dont get it except when it is Mothers day! So, when you grow up, maybe you can get it then! We will continue to eat breakfast like normal, in our wonderful kitchen!"
(Lacy) sigh...
(me) "Now, go back to bed...." and I added a few more words about disobedience.
Am I missing something? Is the new trend to feed your children room service in bed? Hmmmm....I have totally missed the memo on that one!

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Bring The Rain: A Letter to My Daughter

Bring The Rain: A Letter to My Daughter

A beautiful story. These past few days of rain have not been anything to the richness of soil that has been growing through the raindrops that have been falling for this family. I have been a sobbing mess trying to describe to Chris what I am reading. I have been barely able to read the pages as my eyes well up with water. Angie's beautiful message of hope and love for their child is so touching. Her trials and lessons learned, her messages from the Lord are so tangible. Read Angie's story. Her husband is one of the talented singers from the group, Selah. Read, learn, love, pray, grow.

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Oprah-the truth



This video explains so much. It is so sad...and yet so predictable that the enemy would use and confuse such an influential figure. Yes, one day her eyes will be opened. In the meantime, I pray for all those who believe in her, who believe that she is doing good. What a deception! What an ingenious way of trapping those. They believe that just because she does 'good' that it is in the name of Goodness, the one who created good, the one who gave us life, the one who makes it very clear about the way, the only way to Him. In the end, Oprah will be held accountable for those that are led astray because of her teachings. Wow! The video is amazing.

Monday, April 7, 2008

Tragic Loss of our Social Worker

We are without words. Our social worker passed away a few days ago. Read below.


Kathy Elaine Herrod Robison

On Friday, April 4, 2008, Kathy delivered a healthy boy, John Micah Robison, but sadly lost her life after suffering an amniotic-fluid embolism.

Kathy loved her job and working with families. She believed in the work she did here and was integrally involved in almost every aspect of the work at the agency - writing the newsletters, coordinating volunteers, organizing special events, and overseeing education classes. Kathy was kind-hearted, full of life, and dedicated to her family and friends. All who knew Kathy are mourning this great loss.

Family visitation will be on Monday, April 7, 2008 from 4-8 pm at Woodfin Funeral Home, 1488 Lascassas Pike, Murfreesboro, TN.

The funeral will be at 11:00 am on Tuesday, April 8, 2008 at First Baptist Church, 200 E. Main Street, Murfreesboro, TN.

Please keep Kathy's husband, Nathan, new son, Micah, as well as her whole family in your prayers.

Saturday, April 5, 2008

Goodnight Moon


Liam has been enjoying story time lately. I have to say that I enjoy it too. His little warm body still against my chest as his tiny fingers hold the edges of the book in anticipation of the next page. By far he has two favorites, Brown Bear, Brown Bear What do you See by Eric Carle and the second which is my favorite as well, Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise Brown. I have been reading that book for over ten years now. When Evan was born, it became our favorite quickly. We read it so much, that I could recite the whole book without turning a page. But the best part about the book is the intricate drawings. While they seem simple and nondescript, there are slight differences in each page that make you search for the characters. For example, throughout the entire book, the little mouse is moving about the room eating the mush in the bowl, watching the moon rise, etc. Or you might find the kitties playing and then snoozing later in the rocking chair. The moon rises ever so slowly from one page to the next creating this great image of time passing by while this little man says his goodnights to everything in the room. It is by far my favorite kids book and has given me thoughts of an adorable nursery with the same theme. It would be a sweet mural to adorn a nursery...(my artistic side never leaves me). I dont think that book will ever get old..or the preciousness of Liam in my lap or the memories of reading it to Evan and Lacy.

Thursday, April 3, 2008

Yahoo Groups

We belong to two great blog groups that have been super informative about the Ethiopian adoption process. If you are in the process and have not joined in, please consider it. They are CAFEKids@yahoogroups.com and EthiopiaAdopt@yahoogroups.com. Both groups have some fabulous attendees that share the best information. Interestingly, the hot topic this week has been over the financial weight of adoptions on families and the choice of whether or not to have a fundraiser of some sorts. The responses have been all across the board ranging from the polite encouragers to the downright firm opposers. I have enjoyed reading the responses and it has caused me to consider perhaps a fundraiser of our own. I have found two on Etsy.com that have caught my attention. I am particularly drawn to the beautiful artwork of JunkPosse who has created these beautiful silver pendants of Africa to help raise support.
From the beginning, Chris and I have planned to send out support letters to our friends and family. This is a great way to share our heart and gather support from all over the states. This support can include emotional, spiritual, and financial elements. All to create a circle of warmth around us as we prepare to bring home our daughter from Ethiopia. We hope to get those out soon. In the meantime, I am praying for some ideas of fundraising if we are called to take that route. I have no doubt that God will provide if we ask.